Allow limiting the total amount of heap allocations for buffering

This commit introduces a compile time constant MBEDTLS_SSL_DTLS_MAX_BUFFERING
to mbedtls/config.h which allows the user to control the cumulative size of
all heap buffer allocated for the purpose of reassembling and buffering
handshake messages.

It is put to use by introducing a new field `total_bytes_buffered` to
the buffering substructure of `mbedtls_ssl_handshake_params` that keeps
track of the total size of heap allocated buffers for the purpose of
reassembly and buffering at any time. It is increased whenever a handshake
message is buffered or prepared for reassembly, and decreased when a
buffered or fully reassembled message is copied into the input buffer
and passed to the handshake logic layer.

This commit does not yet include future epoch record buffering into
account; this will be done in a subsequent commit.

Also, it is now conceivable that the reassembly of the next expected
handshake message fails because too much buffering space has already
been used up for future messages. This case currently leads to an
error, but instead, the stack should get rid of buffered messages
to be able to buffer the next one. This will need to be implemented
in one of the next commits.

include/mbedtls/config.h

@@ -3010,6 +3010,14 @@
  */
 //#define MBEDTLS_SSL_OUT_CONTENT_LEN             16384
 
+/** \def MBEDTLS_SSL_DTLS_MAX_BUFFERING
+ *
+ * Maximum number of heap-allocated bytes for the purpose of
+ * DTLS handshake message reassembly and future message buffering.
+ *
+ */
+//#define MBEDTLS_SSL_DTLS_MAX_BUFFERING             ( 2 * 16384 )
+
 //#define MBEDTLS_SSL_DEFAULT_TICKET_LIFETIME     86400 /**< Lifetime of session tickets (if enabled) */
 //#define MBEDTLS_PSK_MAX_LEN               32 /**< Max size of TLS pre-shared keys, in bytes (default 256 bits) */
 //#define MBEDTLS_SSL_COOKIE_TIMEOUT        60 /**< Default expiration delay of DTLS cookies, in seconds if HAVE_TIME, or in number of cookies issued */